Attract Your Soulmate-Become A Man Magnet!

In addition to living out your values, another important aspect, is to structure your environment so you don't cause yourself to have negative thoughts. The way to do this is to literally rejuvenate all areas of your life - from clothing and nutrition to exercise and work - so everything is in good working order and does not drag you down. Imagine everyday you see the same coat that you can't wear because it has a button missing.
 

Each time you see this coat - or the outdoor light that needs fixing, or the shower screen that's leaking - it slowly depletes your energy. Although these problems might seem small, they can combine over time to slow you down and bring negative enrgies into your life. So sort out your life and get it working for you, before you consider trying to attract the best partner.
 
If you find you can't handle all the areas in your life yourself, get systems into place to deal with them: hire a cleaner, send clothes away to be repaired, and so on. Cleaning out your house will put you into a better frame of mind, which in turn will help you feel more positive about life, thereby more likely to attract new opportunities and partners.

Finally, look to increase your social circle. The older you get, the more likely you are to have a set circle of friends, So if you have yet to meet a suitable partner, you need to expand your contacts and get exposure to different people, so try to go to more social events. If you are looking for that one in a million person, you don't have to date a million people, but you need to improve your odds by mixing with more people.

Know what you don't want, and understand what you do want feom a relationship. True intimacy and healthy relationships will not occur unless you have boundaries - otherwise you could get walked all over. If you act like a doormat, you will be trodden on.

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