Attract Your Soulmate-Become A Man Magnet!

 
Not all your needs have to be met within a relationship. The more you can meet your needs outside a romantic partnership, the less pressure this puts on the object of your affection once he or she comes into your life, as you won't be expecting perfection. You are more likely to be able to see more objectively whether this person is the right one for you.

Once you have identified your main needs, you can work to find them yourself, or find other people in your life to help you. If you discover a deep need to be included, ask a friend to email you once a week to tell you her news and ask about your week; or if you have a need to feel cherished, you could ask another friend to tell you how much she values your friendship.

Another way to fulfil this need might be to have a regular massage or manicure, as this is all positive physical attention. Needs are fine, and normal, but they must be fulfilled either inside or outside a relationship. Unfulfilled needs will repel potential partners. It actually makes you more attractive to others to tell them your needs and specific requirements, you then appear more in control of your life.

 
One of the big secrets to attraction is that you are irresistible when you are doing what you love to do. The best time to meet your soul mate is when you are living your life, indulging in your interests. This means identifying what you love and value most in life - perhaps freedom, adventure, security, beauty, knowledge or health, starting on a small scale at first. Given the law of attraction that 'like attracts like', by starting small you are getting the process in motion and soon it will grow into more of what you love doing. Then, you are more likely to meet a partner who is in tune with your outlook.

To get you started, write a list of when you've been most happy in your life - those magic moments and memorable experiences. What were you doing at the time? Who were you with? This can help you work out what you value most in life.

When you are doing what you love - whether that's dancing, singing, acting, sports, or reading, you have a great time and don't feel so much need for a relationship to provide joy and happiness. You are fully alive and complete. Then the attraction principle will start to take effect, when you don't need it, you are most likely to attract the relationship you want.

Now, write down ten activities that brighten you up and make you feel good about yourself. Then, pick just one and get started on it right away If you've longed to dance, call a dance school and book yourself in for lessons; if you want to get fit, book a personal trainer; if you enjoy helping others, then find a charity to volunteer your time at; if you love making things, try a pottery class, painting, sewing or flower arranging etc.

Don't think you have to wait until you are married or in a partnership to do the things you've always dreamed of. If you wanted to go travelling but are waiting for someone to do it with, stop waiting! Call a travel company that organises trips for singles and you may meet the man of your dreams on the trip. Just start living life for you. This way, you'll be much more attractive to a future partner.

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