The Hermit
He can be silent, secret and preferring to be alone, sometimes
inaccessible and aspiring to the greater simplicity and love. He knows how to cultivate mystery, to guess and
anticipate the reactions of his partner, while always remaining in full control of himself. This card can indicate
a situation in which he denies his own desires in order to please you.
Wheel of Fortune
He can be very moody and intense. He cannot manage to settle down and commit himself. His desires and urges may
disappear just as quickly as they appeared. However, his temperament is nonetheless very loving, warm and generous.
He gives unreservedly, but, being high maintainence, he always wants more in love. If he makes you feel lonely
through his behaviour, don't sit around and wait for things to change. Do something. Ask your friends to introduce
you to someone new. Accept that party invitation, or see someone else that has been showing an interest in you. Go
out and have some fun, and leave him to his mind games.
The Hanged-Man
He can be a victim of his own excesses, becoming totally
dependent on the woman he loves and desires blindly and passionately, or he is inclined to give up any sentimental
or sensual life altogether. He can be holding on to a highly romantic ideal of love and sex that no partner can
live up to. He could have sexually ambivalent feelings and confusion over his sexual identity, either way, his life
is often in a period of transition.
Death
He aspires to completely change or transform the woman whom he
loves, through the love they share together. However, since he is rather idealistic and cannot help putting so much
passion into his relationships, he is not very constructive in love. But with your help, his love can move you to
surrender yourself totally to him, allowing you to experience one form of transcendence, and transformation,
experiencing a new form of sexual expression and passion.
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